I would like to introduce you to an essay that may change your life as a performer if you want to be listened to, not just heard. My intuition tells me that this is the essence of the old school of piano playing if you combine it with a wonderful touch. Since this is a craft, it means it CAN be learned. I has not so much to do with talent, although "talented" people do most of it intuitively.
The Craft of Musical Communication by Marianne Ploger and Keith Hill ©2005
[edited by Cleveland Johnson]
Playing a musical instrument is a technical craft. Expressing music, by contrast, has been viewed as an art, a view held so long that it is rarely questioned. An alternate view, presented in this essay, is that expressing music is also a craft: it is the craft of musical communication, the art of delivery. It is possible to master technical skills while lacking in communicative skills, and vice versa, because these skills have very little to do with each other. Today, musical mastery is often measured by the former skills, not the latter, yet the greatest musicians are those who are highly skilled in both crafts.
The essay consists of two parts (everything is on one page):
The first part is called "The Art of Delivery" (11 techniques and their descriptions).
The second part is called "On Affect". Affect is the art of expressing, revealing certain emotions through music, not the emotions themselves.
Enjoy!
https://www.musicalratio.com/gpage.html