Hello Nils
Hello Nils,I do not know you and I have never spoken to you. When I browse through various post I see your name a lot and then trouble begins... ruining the posts. Maybe you should stop calling everyone that doesn't agree with you and idiot.If there is a lot of harassement against you then perphaps you are the problem, just some food for thought...Greetings,
Nils runs the site. For the record, I never called anyone an idiot if they disagree. It's the exact opposite than what you state: I am the one being attacked because they disagree.
Well faulty_damper, I have read a lot of things that you have said and you seem like an intelligent man who has a lot of good points and insights. The mistake you make is that you seem to think that you can tell people how they think. Even though you are "correct" in many of your points, you cannot tell people how these points apply on them; because in the end we only have our own subjective view on the world and that's all we know something about. Everything that leads up to suffering or faults in our thinking is because we don't entirely trust this inner subjective truths but need confirmation from outside. This statement is something that I think you sometimes try to make, the problem is that you sort of contradict yourself by trying making these words objective laws. Your statements often sound like "I am right and you are wrong". You said in another thread that you are here to help people, but the way you make your comments leads to people feeling that you are NOT trying to help. I think you have many good points, but you cannot use a posting style which sort of gives one the impression that you are the only one with a good point here, especially not if you want to help people.For example, you said something to another member about him NOT being in love. I think your reasoning about what love is was quite interesting and you made some good points, but you made a mistake when telling a member you know nothing about that he was NOT in love. Regarding all your views on piano technique, you also make some interesting points, but you tell them as if they are objective rules and that you are the only one right. It is hard to take you views on piano technique seriously though since you seem to refuse posting a recording of you own playing. Many members have done that, you have not, and since you say you have "effortless technique" I think plenty would be curious to see you demonstrate you views on technique through a video instead of written words, so that we know that we can take your words seriously. As it is now, you are just wasting your time when you make statements about piano technique since nobody know anything about your true knowledge. Sometimes one can almost get the impression that you are trolling(something which you often reminds us that you don't like when people do).
I agree. It's all about the delivery and the attitude towards others. Other people on the forum don't like some of the greatest of he 20th century but voicing that opinion with as much venom as you do causes a lot of argument and anger. These people idolize them and when told they suck (paraphrasing) it hurts them as a person just a little.
Still, if somebody posts something on a forum that is open for opinion, he should also be open for opinion himself. And if people make a comment that 'Alkan sucks', 'you're 18 and dont love your girlfriend' or insinuate that he's a ridiculous American capitalist, well...... its the internet. If things get out of hand, people get kicked.But oh well, i suppose its never a bad thing that people get reminded now and then that its important -how- they deliver their message
My mom doesn't like Alkan, she voiced her opinion very strongly a while back. It caused a huge argument. I love my mom, and I love Alkan. In very different ways of course but if someone insulted my mother I would be very upset. So if someone insulted Alkan I would be very upset. Just like I stick up for a friend, I'm gonna stick up for my idols.
Funny, I had nearly the exact same incident with my mother regarding Medtner!
The hidden treasure of piano music. God, just listening to his sonatas make my blood boil, he's what you call a *** genius. Oh and Faulty, just one video. Plz bby plz
That's your prerogative to do so but I will not change the way I write in a manner that is less direct and clear.
Hmm.Do you know of anyone here who is capable of writing "direct and clear," yet not being offensive?Would that be a useful skill to develop?
This is a moot point. I am being attacked because these specific members disagree with my opinions about some of their idols, like I insulted their mom.
I do not change the way I write on any other forums. This is how I write normally: straight and to the point. This is also how I communicate in real life, though I must be cautious of offending those of the more sensitive nature. I do not make insincere platitudes because that would not be truthful and is a waste of energy to do so. I do not smile politely but only do so if that is what I truly feel. I do not want people to like me by sucking up to them. That's what you do with straws.Many of you think online forums such as Piano Forum is a place to socialize. Maybe that's the new generation with all the texting gizmos that it transfers over onto other written/read contexts. So when you read posts that do not conform to that trend, you view it negatively. (Most of you who attack me are pretty young/inexperienced with life.) That's your prerogative to do so but I will not change the way I write in a manner that is less direct and clear.
So basicly, you defend your own writing because you like being direct and clear, and you blame other people in this post for being direct and clear towards you?
Making direct and indirect attacks are not acceptable behavior.
What may be for you an attack, may be for someone else be an offer of opinion, and visa versa. So maybe you shouldnt take it all so personally.
I sometimes feel as though Medtner contains the genius of all of the genius pianist-composers who came before him. The counterpoint of Bach. The perfection of Mozart. The architecture of Beethoven. The melting lyricism of Chopin. The savage virtuosity of Liszt. And the heart-wrenching melancholy of his dear friend, Rachmaninoff.
Not when it's continuous and persistent, and the only reason the member posted was to make a derogatory or sarcastic comment about me that had nothing to do with the thread. For example, pianoman53's posts.
Okay.I'll explain why.You keep saying things that are just wrong. To say that Rachmaninov was a terrible pianist is not right in any kind of way. Yet, you say he is. And your reason is "Because it looks different from my technique. I don't care about how it sounds, just how it looks like". That's clearly not a very clever comment, in any point of view.I then make fun of you, and you create a whole thread about how people here are harassing you.Bu-freaking-hu.
Then act like an adult, ignore him. He'll loose his interest if you stop feeding him.
I'd rather he be banned or have administrative action taken because he's a forum troll.
Maybe he'd rather YOU were banned for being the troll at least pianoman53 has posted many recordings of his playing in the past! If you could even play half as well as he can (he plays very respectably!), I'm sure you wouldn't be so terrified of being heard in public!
I wouldn't know if he posts recordings as I rarely visit that forum. As for what you imply, that members should be banned unless they post videos/recordings, you really need to think about what you write because most of us would not be here. Most of us are also not here to listen to other members play. It's arrogant/narrow-minded of you to say that we should all perform to prove our stuff. Most people don't do what they enjoy to please others, they do it for themselves. Since all you do is plague the Audition room with "slow practice" and "no pedal", you should make that your sig. All you do is use that forum to compare your own playing to that of others so of course that's what you think. I do not think the way you do and have nothing to prove, either to you or others."Fame is this generations black plague." ~ Rat Billings
It is assumed that making music is the goal thus it needs not be mentioned.
will not change the way I write in a manner that is less direct and clear.
You worship those pianists as idols so you cannot be objective.
you cannot be objective.
That's not the context in which I made my statements. I said that it's arrogant and narrow-minded to assume that everyone who plays the piano is doing so to outperform one another and to show off. That's just not the case and it's definitely not the case with me. I've never even thought of recording and posting them for all the years I've been a member until they continually badgered me about it. I don't even have recording equipment.YouTube makes people think that everyone can be a star.
The proof is in the pudding......The point is that I could be a concert pianist but that doesn't guarantee that I would be able to transfer my knowledge to my students. I could be a competition winner, but that still doesn't mean I'm a good teacher. A good teacher should be able to bring about drastic changes and improvements over a short time. A bad one may bring about changes over a long time, and sometimes, those changes can be damaging.......Buyer beware - the proof is in the pudding
I could do that, but I'd rather not.
Afraid of a little constructive criticism, are we?