Couldn't agree more with you, chrisbutch! This whole 'song' thing is already annoying enough (and like cbreemer said, seems to be something of a losing battle), but the devaluation of the term 'music' is alarming.
You mentioned rap, hiphop and hardrock as examples of just how down the drain that term has been dragged, but if you could only listen to some of the bullc**p we get to hear more and more often here in Mexico, I mean, when exactly did praising the "heroic deeds" of a criminal organization's kingpin become "music"? Or "singing" stuff that seems taken out of some hardcore porn story?
And even without that, there's just WAY too much eyecandy and other rubbish in that "music" (as often happens with many other things, nowadays), half-naked "performers", dry ice, flashing lights of all colors, idiotic shticks, etc, etc ,etc...And the music???
I couldn't be more grateful for being one of those who, in your own words, saw the light, but it would appear I am among the 5% percent (if not less) of my generation who did...
