The unseen, unheard, unknown aspect of this universe is endlessly fascinating to me. The problem with trying to research it objectively is that all the senses that take in information with only the left brain are a limited way of connecting. It's like looking for something with the lights off when there's a switch right next to you. I find fear of intuition and esp and such to be a limiting mindset. Imagination, psychic events, creativity are all so closely linked in the same part of the brain. It is amusing to me that if scientists can measure something with a we-can-see-it-on-a-graph therefore it's real "study" that they truly believe that truth has been served in a very special way. Frankly, it's so ego driven it's booooooooring. Just ask the next ten people you meet about their experiences with departed loved ones. It's real, it's there, it's just not cool right now to talk about it in polite conversation... doesn't fit with the scientific model. Don't be creeped out. Maybe you could actually plan what you might "say" to others when you're on the other side. I am a psychic by the way, so let me be clear that I know what I'm talking about, and once you get into it in a positive way the source of all this stuff is at times thrilling.