I am very patriotic. Something which I feel you will never understand.
Thal
I think it is very important to explain what you mean with ‘patriotic’ or ‘nationalistic’. There is a kind of person who will, with the hand on his heart and a tear in his eye, sing the national anthem at explosive volume to show his country is the best simply because it is his country; these are called ‘patriots’, and may serve as a cartoonesque example, but that is not the whole story. The is a kind of person who believes that his country is the best of the world in any and all aspects to the extent that nothing may ever change and anyone new is to be forced to be a clone of that person; anyone not adhering to that belief is either an enemy of the state or a foreigner or both.
I happen to believe that my country is among the best functioning in the world. Not because I happen to live there, but based on statistics such as basic equality of all inhabitants, a very good system of supporting those who need it, a comparatively well organised educational system which is fairly accessible to all, a guarantee to freedom of conscience and expression thereof, etc. The UN-list has it on the No. 5 position of ‘best countries to live in’. It is not perfect, far from, but as compared to the rest of the world, my country does end up fairly high in all charts. I’m happy it is, I’d like to see it prolonged, if possible and feasible bettered where possible. Am I proud that my country has reached this position? Well, yes, how could I not be? Does that make me a patriot? If you find so, go ahead. Do I oppose any such forces as want to diminish its position (be they from inside or outside)?. Well, yes, how could I not oppose such? If such negative influence (or attempt to influence) comes from people originating from outside the country but now living in it, or from people living outside the country, do I want such influence stopped? Well, yes, how could I not? Do I feel that deciding the future of this country should first and foremost be in the hands of those belonging there? Well, yes! Does that make me a nationalist? If so, so be it. Do note, however, that with ‘people belonging’, I do not necessarily mean people born here, or having one sort of colour, or background, or whatever. With ‘belonging’, I mean people who want to take part in what this country is, adhere to its laws and ways, wishing to enhance and better it in the ways it already is doing well, and help it diminishing that what it is doing less well. What I
do not want is people either coming in who try and change
backward that what has made this country among the best in the world. Neither do I want people from here, either from cowardice or ‘political correctness’, idly letting such backslides happen, let alone help them along.
When I see that universities allow a ‘guest speaker’ to rearrange a auditorium so that the women sit at the back and the men at the front, I start seething; we have fought a long time to get equality between men and women, now to allow people with medieval ideas to destroy this? When I see actual fights breaking out because some ‘occupational coloured’ people have decided a fully innocent children’s feats day is racist and ‘must’ be obliterated I start seething, especially when some brain washed white people start ‘seeing the point’. Too many people are trying to make all what my country has reached and made look bad, and want to change it into something backward, far worse. At that, far too many people coming here do so with the idea, if not demand, that we change our ways (if not laws) in such a way as they want, ‘because in my country we are [not] used to this or that’. The very fact you came to my country is exactly
because your country is [not] used to this or that’. That you are used to treating women as secondary does not mean you can do so here. That you are used to persecuting gay people may be, but you will damn well be tolerant here (what you
think thereof is your prerogative; the very fact you are free to think what you want is one of the assets of this country!). That you are not used to people changing their religion, or dropping it altogether may be, but here anyone and everyone is free to do so,
and you will damn well accept that!. And if you do not like or agree, well, one of the free things here is the freedom to stay, or leave. But if you want to stay, you will accept that you no longer live in the country you came from, but this one, and that choosing to live here means accepting its laws and ways. They may not be perfect, but they are, by definition, better than the ones from the country you come from
or else why did you come to this country?. Any habits, believes or suchlike
as fit within our system of laws and ways you have you may freely keep and pursue; but if they do not fit, either loose, adjust
or leave. If you want to adhere to that, and add to the further advance of this country, you are, as far as I am concerned, fully welcome. I do not care what shape or colour you have. What you wish to believe is yours to choose. I do not care whom you love. I do not care if your name is John, Ahmed, Chang or Abimbola. I just want you to accept you are in my country (yes, MY country; after all, I am paying for it!), which you are free to make your country, but based on the premises stated above.
Does this make me patriotic, or nationalistic? If you feel so, do so. If you think so, and believe such to be a bad thing, also freely do so. If you think I am a xenophobe, well, go ahead. For, hoping not to offend you but frankly not caring if I do, your opinion about my person does not really concern me….
(If anything, I consider myself a retardophobic, malignophobic and stultophobic. And, sadly, there are many places in this world from which people are coming here who inflict a rather allergic reaction within these phobias. All people are equal, but what people
choose to do is very much not, and hence all cultures are not equal…).
All best,
gep