I want to be:1) Able to play ALL my college rep WELL,2) Get a physically fit, handsome body, and3) Have better social skills and charisma.
It is just a question of establishing an overall, commonsense discipline with a view to the big picture, and to weigh the benefits of immediate gratification against those of long-term satisfaction. You don't have to become a wowser or forsake spontaneous delights altogether, not at all. Start by applying moderation in terms of time spent on things. Allocate yourself thirty minutes of gaming then an hour of working on music, half an hour of Facebook then an hour of training. Stick to your schedule until a balanced discipline is established, which process will probably take no more than a month or two.
4. The only thing you should worry about is being happy.
I want to be:1) Able to play ALL my college rep WELL,
You can have it all, across the span of a lifetime. You just can't have all of it at the same time.
Love all the responses!!! Thanks much.I'll respond more to this in detail but first I have to note that this:It seems like Epicurean philosophy in one statement? Will consider this.
What're you talking about I have it all at the same time lol so why can't he?
... I CAN'T DO THEM!!!Everyday I wake up, I feel like DOING SOMETHING ELSE.This has been bugging me for about a year now.
Developing an unnatural personality to improve your social life/charisma is unhealthy and would be rather exhausting, you can't put up that facade for long and you will attract people who probably have no true connection with who you really are, in the end you waste your time/life living a lie.
Aren't you supposed to be the most interesting pianist in the world?