I guess this is a debate that can't really go anywhere,...
To me, there is no debate. That's not the reason I started the thread. The reason I started the thread was to simply get a feel for how many teachers are out there who actually know how to deal with this type of teaching/learning. The mere fact that many teachers actually view this as a "debate" is the problem as far as I'm concerned. I'm trying to avoid such teachers.
You see, I'm actually doing precisely what I said in the OP. I am doing it on my own without the benefit of a teacher and it's working! There isn't any debate about that in my mind at all.
How can I say that it's "working"? Because I'm making what I consider to be satisfactory progress. That's all I need as 'proof' that it's working for me. So there isn't any question in my mind whether or not the system works. My only question is whether or not I can find a teacher who understands this system well enough to actually teach it. That's the only question I have. There is no 'debate' about whether or not the approach works as far as I'm concerned.
Now, many may get hostile to this and say, "Well if it's working for you so well then what do you need a teacher for?"
Well shame on any teacher who would voice such a question. If they only thing a teacher is good for is to point the path of a suitable step-by-step progressive program then we could do away with teachers altogether because there are plenty of such programs already printed out. That's obviously not what people go to teachers to get.
People go to teachers to get the in-person evaluation and experienced hands-on tips about how to better execute techniques. They also go to teachers quite often simply for the coaching effect. It's always good to have someone pushing you along by expecting you to come back to the next lesson having practiced something. This works doubly because, first, the student doesn't want to let the teacher down, and secondly, it actually gives the student incentive to try to impress the teacher in hopes of praise.
So there are a lot of things that teachers are valuable for that go far beyond the structure of the lesson plans. Teachers who are locked into narrowly-defined lesson plans are limiting their capabilities. And if they become defensive toward suggestions beyond how they like to teach then they have indeed thrown away the key to that lock.
I have not taught piano, or music of any kind. However, I have taught mathematics, physics, computer technologies, as well as many hands-on crafts such as woodworking, welding and graphic arts. I've been a teacher for many years. In fact, I actually began to become interested in teaching abstractly in its own right. I began to study pedagogy and I'm really glad I did. The study of pedagogy in its own right opened up for me a whole new world of specialty teaching for both the learning disabled as well as how to best help advanced students move ahead more quickly than a standard program might allow.
I became intensely interested in specialty students, because I am creative, sensitive, and extremely patient. I consider my best quality to be my ability to sense what an individual student needs to grasp something well. And my individual students have often praised my ability to help them when other teachers would lose patience or simply not "understand" where the student was coming from. So I'm a very big proponent of eccentric teaching methods.
My interest this the special fields of pedagogy lead me into the field of andragogy which many teachers seem to be totally unaware of. Adults learn differently than children do. However, the precisely definition of an "adult" mind is not easy to define. It quite often can have absolutely nothing at all to do with age. It's an attitude, or a way of thinking that is different from standard pedagogical approaches.
Sarahlein instantly recognized that the situation was that of a mature mind and she was prepared to respect and work with that mature mind. That is the first key in becoming an Andragogue (an effective teacher of adults).
But again you need to be careful of the word "Adults". It's a way of thinking and doesn't necessarily have anything at all to do with age. Some very young people think like adults. Some very old people are so used to the pedagogical approach that they have simply become accustomed to it and would rather do things the 'traditional' way than to try something different.
So the andragological approach may or may not work for students of any age. But this case described in the OP of this thread is an obvious adult case. Sarahlein recognized this immediately.
Does the system that was described work? Yes, that's a given. The student has already been making satisfactory progress enough alone to actually be encouraged to seek out a teacher. The student has found her "Way of thinking" that works for her. The only thing left now is to find a teacher who can deal with it. A teacher who recognizes that what is needed is in-person evaluation, tips on technique, encouragement, and yes, even inspirational praise as in a coaching effect.
These are the things the adult student is looking for in a teacher.
So I didn't start this thread to debate the method. I started it simply to see how many teachers can actually recognize non-traditional approaches to learning and deal with them appropriately.
Several teachers were arguing that it would be a waste of time and that the student would soon become frustrated. They didn't even stop to ask how long the student had been using this approach on her own or whether any satisfactory progress had been made. They just assumed to already know all the answers. Those teachers are living in a pedagogical box. They aren't even willing to consider whether there might be other valid approaches to teaching/learning. Why on God's green earth would I even want to debate with such obviously biased people?
My purpose of this thread was simply to see how many teachers out there are already able to see the bigger picture on their own. I have no desire to change the ones who prefer to stick with the more limiting traditional pedagogical approach. I'm just not on the market for that kind of teacher. That's all.