In the case of those two threads that I mentioned, yes, to a certain extent it is. As breifly as possible, I feel this way because I have observed numerous intelligent and clear posts of yours in other threads and at other times. I know that you are capable of relaying your meaning and of understanding others. Granted, we all have misunderstandings sometimes, even between people whom speak the same native language. I won't go into it any further since that would be doing exactly the same kind of circular motions I want to avoid.
I think in that instance it was different
Let's say I read in a book that dog is actually that animal that makes honey
So you say something about "walking the dog" and clearly I become very confused <how can you walk an animal so little, that could sting you, that fly ... I don't understand>
Clearly you would be more confused than me <my dog doesn't fly! ... are you kidding with me?>
See what I mean?
It happened the same thing
The rest of your post I won't bother trying to address.
Yeah ... ignore it; it was just emotional rant ... because I felt hurt
Except to admit that the Tonal Harmony thread itself was indeed not going very far as it was, and that I feel a little bit more inspired about it now. However, I felt more inspired about it before you got there, too, but even more inspired when you mentioned comparing books with each other.
I never said "throw you books away"
But <since as pianists we're more interested in "applied harmony" rather than "theorical papyrus ... I suggest these books>
I was a friendly suggestion ... I was still willing to compare books ... especially from different countries
Anyway, one thing that I will say to find comical is the fact that you had previously expressed your wishes for me to have kept my "rant" up above, that I had actually decided to erase. You said that you were interested in what my thoughts and opinions were, even the negative ones. Should I link you to your own words, as I have had to do in other threads ? Oh yeah, that never got us anywhere as far as further understanding each other, so no, I don't think I will bother this time. So, now when I express my thoughts calmly and straight-forwardly, you are offended... hee hee.
You're right ... but I admit I'm a bit moody
Forgive me ... I didn't mean to be that harsh expecially since I asked you to be honest
Well, I never meant to offend you. And, of course you are entitled to your opinions on whatever you want, including harmony books. As am I. I don't think I ever tried to "take that away" from you, but encouraged you to have your own project going if the other one is not what you wanted, and you clearly wanted something else.
No I didn't.
In fact ... the only reason why I mentioned those books it's because of what YOU said (i.e. practical harmony vs. just theorical harmony)
I wouldn't have even named those if it wasn't for your intelligent remark
Because you're right, we need to know harmony in a way that we can easily apply it to our music and enhance it. That's the cons of books like Kosta and also the reason why after three years of harmony class at universy you still feel the need to learn it better by yourself (this is what EVERY composer and concertist I've known always said ... in fact this is what EVERY economy student who got a work I've ever know said ... the useless theorical rants vs. applied economy and practical information that lead you to feel need to learn everything from scratch)
If I have simply misunderstood you, I would only beg that you see my innocence since I am not a native internet forumer, learning only on my own as I go, and I am sure that this would be the only cause for any trouble between our minds 
No problem

First I felt hurt ... then I realized that nowadays forums are so full of idiots who try to ruin everything and bother people ... that my bona-fide misunderstanding is not necessarily so straight-forward. Think about the silly dog and bee example. I would've probably reacted the way you have
Sorry for my bad words.
I know you're not bitter and have a very open relationship with your students and other fellow pianists. I remember when Bernhard called you Lady m1469 and you said a beautiful thing about everyone being both a teacher and a student, no matter the age or school degree.
I have nothing but praise for you and your work and would never consciously sabotage your efforts ... besides your approach is the closest to my own ... technically, phylosophically, musically; we're very similar
