Hello Danny,
This is such a subjective subject, so many pros and cons on both sides of the arguement concerning an upright vs. a grand, or a grand vs. an upright. It really comes down to YOUR particular situation--e.g. will practice be considered noise by other apartment dwellers or family, then a good electronic keyboard is almost a must. A good upright might be the exact need if you live in a small house or an apartment. Maybe you're lucky enough to have a large enough house that will accomidate a small, medium, or large grand piano. Affordability also has to be considered. Again, it depends upon YOUR particular situation. Look over YOUR situation, be honest with yourself, and make a decision with all the factors in mind---How much can "I" REALLY afford to spend on a piano? Do I need to really consider an electronic keyboard beacause of "noise" condsiderations? Do I really have the room to accomidate a small, med, or large grand?
With regard to an upright vs grand. One could write books and argue endlessly over the pros and cons of both instruments. Again, it's all subjective to each individual person. WHAT PLAYS AND SOUNDS GOOD TO YOU WILL NOT BE WORTH A DAMN IN SOMEONE ELSES OPINION! Pianos are way to an emotional object to get a clear consensous from everybody.
I'll give you my observations from owning and playing on both an upright and a grand.
For the past 10 yrs or so I took lessons and played/practiced at home on a Baldwin Studio Upright. It had nice tone, served me well, but I always pined for a grand. I liked the look of a grand, the sound quality, "touch and response". I finally bought a grand for my birthday last year and haven't regretted it since--a Yamaha C3--used. One of those pianos bought as a piece of furniture and hardly ever played. Yes, I made several compromises when I bought the Yamaha, but my budget dictated those choices. A Stainway 6' grand "would" have been nice, but at 1 and a half to 2 X's as much as the Yamaha. The Yamaha plays pretty darn good, sounds great, and I still get a flutter in my heart when I come downstairs and lay eyes on it in the morning. You might say I'm a bit in love with her.
Anyway, to shorten this story. Make an honest assessment of what you "desire", then realize compromises may have to be made at this time and buy the best you can afford and fit in the space you have at home. Once you identify the affordability/space issues, then go out and play as many pianos as you can that fit those parameters. Once you find and have your new love home, belive me, you will forget all the other opinions and see the instrument as the most perfect piano in the world.
Best luck finding what you are looking for,
TX