Help!

[lucylucy]

hello everbody, i've got a problem...well it's not a real problem...yes it is...
anyway this is the problem :
i'm in love with a guys and another girl loves him  . we gonna call her euhmm "X", and we gonna call the boy "Y", so X loves Y and i love Y ! X said to me that she loves Y, but she doesn't know that i love him...It's very complicated. we don't know if Y love X or if he loves me. anyway what do i have to do?

[Kassaa]

Date him first.

[Essyne]

Date him first.

 

[lucylucy]

Date him first.

i CAN'T are you mad ?? i'm soooooo shy ! and this girl is my friend ! i can't do that to her...she's crazy about him O.O. Anyway a girl doesn't have to give a date to a boy, the boy has to do that.

[slobone]

Get somebody you trust, call them Z, to talk to Y and find out who he likes. Have Z ask very casually and not mention your name, see if Y mentions you or X. Z can be a boy or girl.

[Essyne]

I HATE it when girls play the "XYZ" game (or "XZY", as "Z" is the "middle-man"  ) . . . I don't know what the guy's opinion on this is - but if you like him, and want to have a relationship w/ him, just TALK to him; it's not that hard. Second, if you don't talk to your friend about this, it'll only get in the way of your frienship sub-consciously. You should always start a relationship honestly, and if he doesn't know that both YOU AND THE OTHER GIRL like him, that's not honest at all.

[Etude]

Boo hoo.  Go listen to Fall Out Boy.  And stop using extremely exaggerated text like that.

[thalbergmad]

anyway what do i have to do?

How about a threesome?

Thal

[Essyne]

Boo hoo.  Go listen to Fall Out Boy. 

hahahahaha

And stop using extremely exaggerated text like that.

AGGGREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

[thalbergmad]

Tell them to take protection.

X + Y sometimes = Z

Thal

[dnephi]

The other option is that you can eat chocolate .  I recommend Ghirardelli's (sp?).

Daniel

[lucylucy]

Etude : i don't understand...
use easy word please ! i'm french so i can't understand very well...

How about a threesome?

sorry...i don't understand...what does it mean?

dnephi : HAHAHA very funny.

Essyne : Actually there is a "Z" my best friend i've told her everything but she doesn't know very well the boy so she can't help me...

I talk to him "de temps en temps" (search in a translator).  not a lot

[thalbergmad]

i'm french so i can't understand very well...

I think in froggy language it is "menage a trois".

Thal

[lucylucy]

I think in froggy language it is "menage a trois".

Thal

well...
NO NO AND NO
Are you just talking for make me angry or something like that ??
"in froggy language" PFFFFFF

[Essyne]

Yes, I'm sure that THAT, "lucylucy," is Thal's goal in life - to make you angry. . .












Has he succeeded?

[lucylucy]

Yes, I'm sure that THAT, "lucylucy," is Thal's goal in life - to make you angry. . .












Has he succeeded?

like we say in french :" Les imbéciles ont leurs répond par le silence".

[thierry13]

like we say in french :" Les imbéciles ont leurs répond par le silence".

In french you would say : Les imbéciles on leur répond par le silence. You really seem to me like a 13 years old girl from Quebec, indeed. I witnessed a lot of those kind of stories when I was your age, typically the kind of behavior of those stupid 12-13 years old girl. You know what, you left you only 2 options : he loves me or he loves her... how about he doesn't love any of you two? That would solve the problem. If you're SOOO respectful to your friend who's crazy about him, I think she at least should be equally respectful. Tell her you love him too, and if she tells you : "I loved him first", it's because she's a betch and she doesn't deserve your friendship. Then you can get the boy, or become emo if he loves your betch friend.

[lucylucy]

thierry13 YOU HAVE TOTALLY RIGHT !!! exept that i'm not a quebeck girl lol. im french
bref ....if i said to her that i love him. i'm sure she's gonna say "i love him first"....
and perhaps he loves nobody... SNIF SNIF SNIF POOR ME !!!
so FINALLY :
- sorry but i can't tell to X that i love Y
I HAVE TO FORGET HIM !!

[Essyne]

Sounds like you have it all figured out.

[lucylucy]

Sounds like you have it all figured out.

sorry i dont understand

[thalbergmad]

sorry i dont understand

Ask him before we all die of boredom or old age.

Thal

[lucylucy]

Ask him before we all die of boredom or old age.

Thal

i don't understand.
But tell me what does it mean

[thalbergmad]

If you want to know if someone likes you or someone else, ASK THEM.

It is better to know than not to know.

Thal

[lucylucy]

....well i'm asking to you 

[retrouvailles]

Another word of advice. Don't go to the internet for romantic help.

[mephisto]

If you want to know if someone likes you or someone else, ASK THEM.

It is better to know than not to know.

Thal

I don't particulary care for this topic, but it isn't always that easy. People don't just ask someone if they like them or not. Sometimes it can make things really uncomfortable.

[lucylucy]

Another word of advice. Don't go to the internet for romantic help.

bon laissez tomber ! vous pigez quedal alors allez vous faire foutre. J'en ai marre de parler anglais, vous vous foutez bien d'ma gueule héhé, bien marrant hein ?
Pff c'est bon A+

[wotgoplunk]

bon laissez tomber ! vous pigez quedal alors allez vous faire foutre. J'en ai marre de parler anglais, vous vous foutez bien d'ma gueule héhé, bien marrant hein ?
Pff c'est bon A+

Si vous voulez les repondres agreables, vous devez dire des reponses agreables aussi! 

Votre probleme est difficile. Mais vous avez a le resoudre vous. Nous ne pouvons pas reparer ce probleme pour vous.

Excuse my poor French.

[Essyne]

i'm not even going to attempt the french thing, but i'd have to disagree, mephisto - I think that if you can't be open w/ someone and just ask them how they feel, then what's the point in having a relationship w/ them?

Although, at the same time, I am a bit of a traditionalist, and I think that a woman (or girl, w/e) should be chased a bit - so, do what you want, lucy - you won't listen to us at the end of the day anyways. . .

[thierry13]

i'm not even going to attempt the french thing, but i'd have to disagree, mephisto - I think that if you can't be open w/ someone and just ask them how they feel, then what's the point in having a relationship w/ them?

Although, at the same time, I am a bit of a traditionalist, and I think that a woman (or girl, w/e) should be chased a bit - so, do what you want, lucy - you won't listen to us at the end of the day anyways. . .

Isn't obvious this problem is a stupid and immature one and does not need serious reflexion? She's obviously 12 or so and needs to learn by her own experiences.

[thierry13]

Si vous voulez les repondres agreables, vous devez dire des reponses agreables aussi! 

Votre probleme est difficile. Mais vous avez a le resoudre vous. Nous ne pouvons pas reparer ce probleme pour vous.

Excuse my poor French.

Si vous voulez des réponses agréables, vous devez dire des réponses agréables aussi! 

Votre problème est difficile (you could have said "compliqué" in this case maybe) . Mais vous avez à le resoudre par vous-même. Nous ne pouvons pas réparer ce probleme pour vous.

There you go 

[thierry13]

like we say in french :" Les imbéciles ont leurs répond par le silence".

That meant : We answer to dumbasses by silence. Kinda ...

[prometheus]

Wait until you are 17.

[pianochick93]

....well i'm asking to you 

We neither know the guy or know what he thinks.
If your friend is a proper friend she will not abandon you because you like him as well, chemistry just does these things to us sometimes.

[dnephi]

That meant : We answer to dumbasses by silence. Kinda ...

What's really odd is that it wasn't exactly perfect French either.

[thierry13]

What's really odd is that it wasn't exactly perfect French either.

It's kind of an expression ... the grammar was okay (not really, but it's okay for the expression), there were some spelling error tough.

[slobone]

Si vous voulez les repondres agreables, vous devez dire des reponses agreables aussi! 

Votre probleme est difficile. Mais vous avez a le resoudre vous. Nous ne pouvons pas reparer ce probleme pour vous.

Excuse my poor French.

Dude at least learn how to do é -- it's ALT-0233...

[gerry]

Pff c'est bon A+

X, Y, Z and now A+
The plot thickens - this story is beginning to resemble alphabet soup!

[pmz310]

this thread is humorous

[dnephi]

X, Y, Z and now A+
The plot thickens - this story is beginning to resemble alphabet soup!

The question is solved!  Make soup for your friend and your prospective boyfriend.  Fill hers with a powerful laxative or chemical of your choosing, and leave his untouched.  That way no one is offended, but she's still out of the way. 

[rc]

i'm not even going to attempt the french thing, but i'd have to disagree, mephisto - I think that if you can't be open w/ someone and just ask them how they feel, then what's the point in having a relationship w/ them?

My thought on how to know if someone likes you without asking: getting stuck in each others eyes.  When I'm talking to a girl and she gives me that shining gaze and I can't look away, the message is loud and clear.

There are studies somewhere about babies looking longer and harder at things they like.  If anyone doubts their own experiences.

[wotgoplunk]

Dude at least learn how to do é -- it's ALT-0233...

No number pad, I'm on a laptop.

(And thanks for the editing Thierry )

[lucylucy]

HAHAHAHAHAH let me laught........
you say that i'm imature and another stuff.....but look at YOU, you're just laughing about me and saying that i do some "faute d'orthographe". Well Thierry13 SORRY but your french is totally SUCK you're trying to corrige wotgotplunk, but you can't.

Si vous voulez les repondres agreables, vous devez dire des reponses agreables aussi! 

Votre probleme est difficile. Mais vous avez a le resoudre vous. Nous ne pouvons pas reparer ce probleme pour vous.

Excuse my poor French.

In GOOOOOOD french we should say :
Si vous voulez des réponses agréables et bien répondez d'une façon agréable.
Votre problème est compliqué. Mais vous devez le résoudre par vous-même. Nous ne pouvons rien faire pour vous.

BREF, other thing "A+" means "bye".

ANDD, today, i finaly decided to forget this boy. Now i hate him because he makes me sad and really i don't care for my friend because she never talk to him... --' and if she will his girlfriend. alléluïa.

[Essyne]

Well Thierry13 SORRY but your french is totally SUCK you're trying to corrige wotgotplunk, but you can't.

well. . . . you're not so bilingual yourself. . . . 

[lucylucy]

after a long reflexion, and exploration, i found that my title wasn't the same !!!!
BREF
Essyne : i never said that my english was perfect.

[Essyne]

But you're still criticizing others - People who are trying to HELP you.

[lucylucy]

But you're still criticizing others - People who are trying to HELP you.

sorry that's not true !!!
thierry13 is very rude with me !

[ctrastevere]

sorry that's not true !!!
thierry13 is very rude with me !

If this is how you react to rudeness on the internet then I wouldn't suggest posting in forums at all. I'm not condoning rude behavior by any means, but I can assure you that compared to many other topics I've seen (in this forum and elsewhere) any form of rudeness that thierry13 might have shown in this thread is rather mild.

Oh well, you'll learn. 

[thalbergmad]

When I'm talking to a girl and she gives me that shining gaze and I can't look away, the message is loud and clear.

Pickpockets do the same.

Thal

[ahinton]

Pickpockets do the same.

And what - just out of interest - do you do?

Best,

Alistair