there! listen to rc, people. he hath spokenth 
hahah, thanks
That's well said, and, frankly, I agree with you, rc.
But, then again, Chopin had a technical gift -- a natural endowment -- of musical genius that enabled him to express what his cleaning woman, for one, may have felt for her own children and neighbors. Being less talented than Chopin, she may have had no way to express it aside from simple loving and caring as best as she could. Still, they could have been equals.
Chopin left a monumental legacy of beautiful music, but his record as a philanthropist is not so exemplary. Or maybe, it's just undocumented. Perhaps his cleaning woman was a greater person, spiritually.
His heart is not his essence, despite the Romantic rhetoric. But it IS his heart and HIS wish that it rest in Poland. I think, as you do, that it should rest undisturbed. What killed Chopin is not important to me.
I know what you mean, I've come across quite a few people who are unsung heroes. Regular people who work hard for their families, successful businesses that contribute to the community, even just people who do a good job day after day!
But when I think of it, I'm a firm believer in results. I have a friend who is always talking such lofty sentiment, the guy moralizes more than anyone else I know, but the results of his actions are absolute garbage! Who knows what lies in anothers soul, I can't tell if he's just incompetent or maybe he only says such things because they sound nice and has never really thought them through... But the results, are not very good.
Or a father, who wants all the best for his son, but when things don't go exactly according to plan this high expectation (out of best wishes) manifests as disappointment and continually demeaning remarks. It's something to see a kid who believes himself to be an idiot because he's heard it so often from his parents.
Maybe that's the best they could do? but the old phrase - "the road to hell is paved with good intentions".
Give me good results instead. I also once knew a fellow who, by the way he talked, seemed to be very much motivated by ego... But, somehow this self-interest was turned to good when he wants to be seen as a good teacher - he actually does a very good job in teaching people!
Well who knows, maybe all my little speculations about the people I meet are way off base. I agree with your point about people who do the best they can with what skills they have, they all do their part to make the world a better place. I think the efforts of regular people can add up.
Van Gogh probably could not have made much art at all unless his brother was supporting him. Would a JS Bach be possible without the efforts of generations of musician lineage? and I believe JS also had the support of his brother after his father died. Haydn had a generous friend who, though poor himself, let Haydn live in his attic when the young composer was homeless...
It's probably the result of many of these unsung heroes that any of the great figures in history are possible at all.