Brahms had a love life?
from what i know he has had no documented relationships
It's well documented that he was madly in love with Clara when he first met her (alas, Robert was still alive at the time so it came to naught), and received plenty of attention from the opposite sex, which was often reciprocated. Hell he even considered marriage at one point. He also seemed to use brothels a lot, and was very popular among the "working" girls since he carried tons of extra cash around which he handed over freely. All this can be gleamed by reading Swafford's biography.