There are several ways to organise and group students in order to answer your question. I find the most useful to be this one:
There are four kinds of students: Toddlers, beginners, intermediate and advanced. For a full description of their requirements and teaching approaches, have a look at reply #6 on this thread:
https://www.pianoforum.net/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.cgi?board=stud;action=display;num=1078389267The second helpful and useful way to regard this subject is to focus on types of
attitude, rather than kinds of student. Although students are very different as individuals, the attitudes they display at different stages can be surprisingly similar.
One’s attitude is perhaps the single most important factor determining how well or how badly (if at all) one is going to learn how to play a musical instrument. Although I am going to refer to the piano, all that follows apply equally well to all other musical instruments.
What exactly is attitude? The Oxford Dictionary provides the following definitions:
1. A settled way of thinking or feeling. A position of the body indicating a particular mental state.
2. Truculent behaviour (informal, chiefly N. America). Self-confident behaviour.
The word originally comes from 1700s French and Italian and meant fitness, posture, as well as the disposition of figure in statuary or paintings.
To me, attitude means a behaviour at the root of which are certain – and often unconscious - beliefs. Usually, if you can spot the belief and challenge it, the behaviour tends to change dramatically.
It is very easy, and surprisingly common to find the following attitudes on the part of students or prospective students:
1. Practising / musical theory / reading a score are not important. Gut feeling is all that matters.
2. Practising / playing scales / playing technical exercises / are boring and confusing and never gets anywhere.
3. I find all pieces too difficult.
4. Practising / musical theory / reading a score are only for people who want to be concert pianists. I just want to have fun playing the piano.
5. Giving up at the first difficulty (= to expect to be born knowing.)
These are all negative or defeatist attitudes from people who have no confidence in their playing, and have not been taught how to practise correctly.
But one may also find the opposite - and equally bad - kind of attitude:
1. I find playing very easy. You just play by ear, or whatever you want in any way you want.
2. The way I play is always right. After all music is about expressing oneself. So I will express myself by playing my way.
3. The teacher told me to sit in a certain way and to position my fingers in a certain way. I just can’t be bothered; I feel much more comfortable doing it my way. What does the teacher know, anyway?
It is true that a student usually will not say things like that, however if one observes their behaviour one may well conclude that these attitudes form the basis of their approach to piano lessons / practise.
Here are some examples of what they actually say (and my usual response):
1. “I can’t”. (Of course, you can’t. If you could you would not need to come to lessons.)
2. “I don’t think I’m good enough” (I agree, so we better start working towards improving).
3. “I will do it my own way” (What is so good about your way? You stink!)
4. “This does not work” (Your language does not correspond to reality: Instead say: “I can not make this work. Please, help me.”)
5. "This is sooo booooring!!!" (Again, your language does not reflect reality. Nothing is boring. Boredom is not a quality of things/processes, boredom is an inner feeling. Only you can control your inner feelings. Control them!)
6. A long winding explanation why s/he can’t play/practise (It may explain, but it does not justify. In any case, I am not interested in guilt, what can we do to put it right?)
7. "Can I stop piano lessons?" (Of course, you can. You should learn because you want to. Learning music is a privilege, not a compulsory torture")
Needless to say, progress in such cases will be very slow, or non-existent. And without progress no joy, just boredom.
So what can one do? In my opinion it is useless to fight against bad attitudes (or try to suppress them). Like bad habits, instead of fighting them, we ignore them, and substitute them by good attitudes.
One must approach the learning of music with a very different set of attitudes. Here are some of the attitudes one finds in top musicians and top students that progress and learn at an almost unbelievable rate:
1. Everyone should play a musical instrument. Everyone can play a musical instrument (advantages of music, the problem of age, myths relating to music learning)
2. Playing a musical instrument is a skill that can be developed (no one is born knowing how to play - the ability to play is not fixed genetically - it is not some talent only genius are born with)
3. I am a musician (never mind how good)
4. I can get better and better in my playing (one improves all the time - perfection is unattainable)
5. Playing a musical instrument requires a deliberate effort. Even if you can play by ear and have a natural talent, in order to improve and go beyond what one can presently do, will require a deliberate effort.
6. A piece that appears impossible / complicated at first can often be made simpler.
7. Take one step at a time.
8. Separate your ego from your music playing. Look at your playing objectively.
9. The purpose of playing is not to be right every time and never to make a mistake.
10. Listening and learning is a key part of playing a musical instruments.
11. Always be humble. Arrogance is the mark of a poor player.
And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
Best wishes,
Bernhard.