Hi all,
I'm a fairly new piano teacher, and I have five young students and one teenage student. One of my young ones, a 7-year-old girl, came to me because her mother didn't like the fact that she's been taking piano for a year now and still cannot read music. She actually plays from memory very well, has excellent hand position and almost perfect rhythm, but indeed she cannot read music.
I have been working with her on this for about two months now, and just today during her lesson I was surprised when she had trouble telling me whether the notes on the page were going up or going down. I went over and over it and wasn't getting through to her. Because I was insisting that she look at the music during the part where she would play going down instead of up, she moved closer and put her face about five inches away from the book. But by then she couldn't play 'cause she was so close to the piano.
It dawned on me that she might have trouble with her eyesight. And so I asked her a few questions, when she looks at the music what does she see, can she read the words, does she see the lines on the staff? All of these questions, the answer was no. I had her move her head closer and asked if she could see the words, the notes, the lines. The answer was yes. I took my glasses off and said that I couldn't read them either unless I wear my glasses. Then I said that maybe she needs to have her eyes checked and that I would let her dad know.
Then she rubbed her eyes and said, "Oh, it's okay now, I just had something in my eye." I asked if she was sure, and she said yes. Then I asked her to play, and she played better, but by then she had memorized it and was trying hard not to make a mistake.
I got the feeling she didn't want her dad to know, and he's kind of stand offish so I didn't know whether I should say anything. I didn't just yet but should I? Or is that overstepping my role as a teacher? I don't want them to get mad at me or go to yet another teacher because once again their daughter isn't learning to read music. But it's obvious to me that part of the problem is she can't see it.
Any advice?
Thanks for reading my very long post,
Laura