What if he was J Menz?
J_menz isnt that much of a douchbag.
But even more seriously though, despite the fact that he cut my heart out, he knows what the Rachmaninoff he's talking about! he was a pretty nice guy and a good teacher. I want him to take me as his student.But are all university teachers like that? Do they beat you up like that?
Did I play him as a douchebag?He's not, he's a nice guy, but he just tore me apart. But I guess that's a contradiction there isn't it.
I just had a lesson with a university teacher. Over all, it went pretty well, I think he's a pretty good teacher. Nice guy, you know. However...He destroyed me! He completely tore me apart! He told me to throw away my hopes and dreams as soon as possible!
I think you have found yourself a good Teacher, who is going to teach you about Life, not only the craft of piano playing.
....He told me to throw away my hopes and dreams as soon as possible!
...And then he talked about how he has perfect Chineese students who started at age three, debuted at Carnegie hall at like age four, won the Van Cliburn at like age six, how amazing they are, etc...
I would elaborate more on what he said, but I fear that he may actually be on piano street, and he won't take me as his student!
But even more seriously though, despite the fact that he cut my heart out, he knows what the Rachmaninoff he's talking about!
But are all university teachers like that? Do they beat you up like that?
some people need to be shown hard "truths" before they make a change/improvement
Not that there's anything wrong with being realistic, but..this - "He told me to throw away my hopes and dreams as soon as possible!"..hopes and dreams fuel the desire to achieve. Throwing them away is not productive in ANY aspect of life.
I would be as blunt, and probably in pretty much the exact same way, under two conditions.
is rachmaninoff_forever a native speaker of English?
1) I was a high level teacher who could pick and choose only the most promising students, and could take them up to a very high standard indeed.
...Ofcourse this is just my relatively inexperienced perspective. Its also likely not a position that can be taken by a music uni.
Picking students on that basis reeks of care about the teachers image and not about the genuine success of one's students.
I can see from the way they pour me a cup of coffee what they've been doing and what the lesson is going to be like.
OMG. If I were your student, how would you interpret the way I didn't pour you a coffee (but did get one for myself)?
I talked to my current teacher about this and he said this was normal, and that I should stick with him.
"Stick with him" meaning your current teacher or this university teacher? So you are going to have lessons from two teachers?
He's American. That's pretty close.
Well, at least we can rule out the possibility of speaking some OTHER language!
It's horrible.. and I don't think it really helped me all that much. Some people are just jerks and they are so in love with themselves that they don't care about how they treat other people.
Or perhaps he was trying to Help you, like a good professor should...
I think you have found yourself a good Teacher, who is going to teach you about Life, not only the craft of piano playing. You will hear some more along the way like: "Even if there's a bomb blast in the hall, play till the end and then start counting dead bodies", etc. He's just telling you to be realistic; "you have more chance of getting rich by robbing a bank then by striving for a solo piano career." (c) You don't want to know how many girls here in Moscow throw themselves out the window of their 11th-story dormitory each year because they realize too late that they cannot fulfill their parents' hopes. Better do like Michelangeli - study to be a doctor first and then slowly but surely develop your art. In that case you may appear some day and smash the competition to pieces. The race to be number one as it is organized right now is a crazy one and it's getting more crazy each year; an illusion actually.Paul
I can link you to it if you need a little "pick me up"
when I try to play for him, I like freak out because I don't want him to bake me and I end up playing worse than I usually do by myself.
Oh for heavens sake!You are supposed to make mistakes in front of your teacher. They are there to help you, not you there to impress and entertain them. So, take the bull by the horns, and lead him straight to the bits you are doing worst at. Make him earn his money.
You're forgetting that students go to lessons for gratification regarding the past week not to learn anything new.
that the lack of them would go unnoticed.
Pretty sure I tried to pull that one over for about 5 or 6 years. I'd like to think it worked, but then later on I remember my teacher saying something like "if you actually practiced all these years you'd have been a decent pianist"
even if I don't touch a piano for a week
I heard a guy practicing 3rd movement of Moonlight sonata today in the P-rooms. I was immediately attracted to him. It is not a difficult piece though.