First, in regards playing in your school recital, you need to quit worrying about honors and start focusing on your music. Second, in terms of developing musicianship, the Chopin Etudes are way overrated, in my opinion.
I play and recommend Op 25 #7 because the notes are easy to learn, and it develops musicality. There are tens of thousands of young pianists who get technically adept early on, and you never hear from them again. Why?: because, musically, they have nothing to say.
Secondly, every pianist in the 19th century had both a piano teacher and also a theory and composition teacher. If you are serious about becoming a musician, that is the course of study you need to embark on.
Finally, the "Russians" are basically all BS, and a whole lot of people fall for it. Two lessons a week is crazy, regardless of the price. And, mentally abusing a student is unconscionable.
Good luck, focus on the music, and while you are at it, SLOW DOWN! You are in the process of getting way ahead of yourself. You have your whole life in front of you.