Thank you Coda! I've tried to bite my tongue, but really guys- you think I haven't thought about any of this? You're correct when one of you said, "I don't know the bride on a personal level..." EXACTLY-you don't. And frankly, when someone said women are "wired" to be adverse to something like this, because the wedding is all about them- Well let me ask you one thing...Who is this song for? The bride. It's all about the bride and how much she is loved, and how stinking lucky I am to be with her. I'm taking the time, almost a year in advance, to obsess over memorizing and learning to play a song that professes my love to her. If that's not romantic- 'yall need to get your heads checked.
To quote Coda, "He asked for help, not opinions."
Sorry to rant, but this has been some frustrating "help."
Thank you