reality test, have you ever listened to any mozart opera? lots of people who don't care for opera in general really love mozart opera. a good introduction would be The Marriage of Figaro. rent a DVD with subtitles. it's really a musical comedy and the tunes are sublime!
i hated opera as a kid, i thought it was pretentious. but then i fell in love with the music of opera, with its lyricism, and with the sound of the human voice, especially a good mezzo or tenor.
my first introduction to it was when i was in music school, i heard someone singing an aria "Manon Lescaut" and i was thoroughly entranced. i was sure it could not be opera, i knew i hated opera. i thought it must be leider or something instead.
i could not get that melody out of my head, so finally i played it on the piano for a composer friend who identified it for me. i was shocked. i started tagging along to the opera with friends, especially the free summer opera series in central park, the fully staged New York Grand Opera, and the two metropolitan opera concert presentations on the great lawn each summer. i discovered that i loved it after all.
then the movie of "carmen" came out with placido domingo in the leading role and i was thoroughly smitten by his voice and his musicianship. i started to get standing room tickets at the met, and buy videos and recordings.
what i find so electrifying about opera is how the music is intertwined with the theater of it. how a musical theme can be used to foreshadow events, or herald a character's imminent appearance. it is very rich, much more than the sum of its parts.
and how i wish i could sing like that!
