Isn't weird and cool how we're talking about some dude's love affair almost 200 years after he broke up with her?
But yeah, Thal wasn't talking about his personality. He was talking about Chopin's music being effeminate. Which I agree with wholeheartedly. And yes Hinton, including the Scherzos.
Well, I suppose that there might be perceptibly "effeminate" ways in which to play the two Scherzi that I mentioned, or the F# minor Polonaise, F major and F minor Ballades and much else besides should certain pianists so choose, but that doesn't make the pieces themselves "effeminate". You're entitled to your opinion, but many, including Peter Maxwell Davies, wouldn't agree with you and it does a disservice to Chopin to play his work in ways that suggests that they're other than what the composer intended. I doubt that anyone would accuse Alkan of having written "effeminate" music, yet he loved and respected the music of his friend Chopin.
Having said that, this alleged/perceived "effeminacy" in Chopin's work is nothing new; years ago, Sorabji used to complain about performances that he described as "milk-and-water" Chopin and "drawing-room-languishing" Chopin, but these criticisms were quite clearly about the perfomances rather than the music itself.
Anyway, as I mentioned previously, I had thought that this thread was at least in part about comparing the music of Chopin with that of Schumann (and, as we know, Schumann, like Alkan, thought very highly of Chopin's work but Chopin just didnt "get" Schumann's) and discussion of "effeminacy" of expression (whatever that might be, if anything at all) is hardly instructive or informative in respect of either composer; try a limp-wristed "effeminate" performance of Schumann's Toccata and see how silly that sounds - and then perhaps catch Pollini playing Chopin's Études or Argerich (or Pogorelich when he was still able to play as he did in his youth) and figure out where the "effeminacy" of expression is to be found in them.
Schumann's grasp of form was certainly inferior to Chopin's most of the time (though there are undoubtedly exceptions) and yes, he can be prone to "rambling" on occasion (the piano sonatas are just one case in point) but, although Thal disagrees fundamentally, I find that there's still plenty of worthwhile music from this composer.
Best,
Alistair