I do not believe you understand the coding and how the algorhythms work.The videos thumb up and thumb down help with several things including "training" a user account for suggested content.
Looks like somebody got their video thumbed down
Lol, NO. I mean single thumbs down happen but it wasn't about it. I don't think my playing is so superb that nobody should vote it down However, it would probably be helpful to see a comment but I guess I can live without it anyway.But it hurts me a bit when I see those kids who need to use their new gained knowledge and instead they get downvoted. And I don't get when people downvote Josh W. or Paul B. It just doesn't make sense. Funny that people think everything's about emotions not reason. Well, I guess that would explain why they downvote videos.
I mean I don't care if it's a kid or a grown dude if I don't like the content I'm not gonna up vote it. Kids don't get special treatment from me. It's good to learn rejection and failure at a young age anyways. A thumbs down is hardly a rejection or a failure anyways.
You don't have one-end choice, do you? You don't have either to upvote or downvote, right? "Good to learn rejection and failure" - yeah that's nicely put. You can also add "one's responsible for their own emotions" and would you like maybe to extend to that "that's why domestic violence is fine"? Or maybe rather not? What I mean is that you're being so selfish in this just justifying your own ends and not even thinking about others. It doesn't happen that way that by rejecting the kid s/he learns how to cope with it. S/he first needs to get wise parents and you just don't know if they have. So take the reponsibility for your actions and stop justifying this in such a way like you're almost saying they should thank your that.
Is there any point?From my point of view it's a total nonsense or a person's mental problems. So far I've seen thumbs down on videos of kids playing or Paul Barton's etc. If that's a total crap (and the author can easily notice that) then fine, it can say "your video is unwatchable" but these videos are often quite fine and who cares about the voter's personal taste for something else? And for God's sake you judge kids playing by how you should play once you mature and learn it well? You don't like it - go away. Why do you give thumbs down? Most of them don't even leave any comments. So that's no learning experience for the author whatsoever.
You're absolutely right. I don't care about the other kid. You put the video on YouTube so you have to be prepared to deal with criticism and people not liking your videos. If you're gonna be a crybaby about it, don't post the video. Problem solved. And I think there's an option to disable comments and thumbs up/thumbs down no? Take responsibility for my actions?? So I'm responsible for how the kid feels because of one down vote? Is he gonna kill himself??? Am I missing something here? Lmao that's so stupid. No kid is gonna be upset about a down vote. And THAT IS how it works. You don't need good parents to know how to deal with failure. You deal with failure by experiencing failure. And HOW IN THE WORLD did you bring domestic violence into this?? You're reaching MEGA hard dude.If you cry over social media clout, you have a much bigger problem than someone down voting your video. You probably believe in giving everyone a trophie in children's sports so you don't hurt anyone's feelings. EVERYONES a winner! EVERYONES in first place! That's not how life works lol
You are assuming comments will make for a learning experience on the internet. I have seen some comments right here on Piano Street where I wish the poster would only be allowed to do thumbs up/down. :-)
If you say you don't care about other ppl emotions (but in fact you're just showing yours by the rating system) it sounds emotional. By using emotions we usually can't use the reason in the very moment. It's different with empathy where you can still think clearly. If you say you don't care about the emotions of other ppl you can abuse them emotionally as well, saying that's their problem not yours. This is how domestic violence forms. It is not only being beaten but also being a subject to toxic emotions. People subjected to such emotions usually drown in them, not learn how to deal with it. The same goes for war witnesses. Are they getting more healthy by experiencing the cruelty of war? And you argue that your cruelty and rejecting is beneficial for children. I assure you, they would have better occassion to learn it.That's the first thing.The second one is that it still sounds silly. "I don't like it so I'm not gonna pretend otherwise". Well, congratulations then. How did you ever get to a kid's practicing video if you're looking for a real performer? You rate the kid for your own disability in findingg a proper content suitable for you?I didn't want to discuss your right to upvote or downvote, I discussed only your reason for that. And for me, even if I accept your right to do it in the end, it still souds somehow awkward. I hope this differentiation is clear.Well, this might be tricky but then you can still ask somebody else if you're not sure or you know already that this isn't something to take into consideration. At least it would be clear enough to decide your next steps.
There's no other way to deal with failure besides experiencing failure. You lose a basketball game, you cry, you get over it big deal. You don't need parental guidance for that it's a part of life. Stop making it so complicated and trying to compare it to war it's not the same thing.
Except that your private opinion (which doesn't even match their actual level and progress in practice) is NOT their failure. It's yours and you insist to present it as theirs. For me in general this isn't very far from being toxic.
This is just my thoughts and it's in not way a comment on anyone who has posted here in this discussion. However, I often wonder if it's a generational thing? Sometimes I think people brought up with the internet/social media vs people a little older, have quite a different attitude to comments or criticisms online. I'm 41 so I was the generation that was kind of halfway I suppose. (Life before and after internet) When I talk to younger people, I can sometimes find it strange that they disassociate the fact that a person online is a real person with feelings...I've known people to make comments or troll (not saying rachmaninoff_forever is a troll!) and it often seems it's either because they say 'it's no big deal, it's just a throwaway comment ' or they say 'they put themselves out there to be judged anyway' I actually find it a bit odd that people do put themselves on the internet to be critiqued and judged..(rate my face..ask me anything and sites like that) cause common sense says you'll get half the crackpots in the world tearing strips off you. I heard a lecture once about how it's part of a bigger problem now in society..we are becoming disengaged with real emotion and feelings as everyone puts everything online and sells a version of themselves (instagram or vlogs) they lay everything bare, and the public can see them as fair game for critique and ridicule.Even on a forum once where I posted a question, I got a not nice comment from someone (which was kind of unrelated to the post) so then the discussion started about online abuse and quite a few comments were 'this is the Internet forums deal with it.' Now I don't know these people, they don't know me so I wasn't overly offended however, as I had put myself 'out there' and bared my soul for a question..It did feel quite personal and I suppose slightly hurtful. But then I reminded myself it was probably some guy hating his life that would never have the guts to say something to your face, so he hides behind his computer and posts angry messages..lol..While I'm not into the whole touchy feely..praise everyone mentality, I do think people do not always realise the impact a negative word or down rating could have. Yeah it could be some kid or even an adult putting a video up...and if they are self confident and aware that's great and they can take criticism on the chin. But I sometimes think, maybe it's just a wee shy kid that doesn't have the guts to play to anyone in person, and maybe for him 10 people liking his video is a wee confidence boost..so why rain on his parade..at least he tried....As my mother always said 'if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all .' 🤗I just wish people were generally nicer to each other, there's a lot of sh*t in the world without encouraging negativity.