hype
You need to change your signature I've been meaning to tell you.It's lame
Christopher what you describe must be very frustrating. But it is the others who have the problem, not you. Racism is still a big problem in our society and in that regard, we are still in the middle ages.Where I live (Greece) racism is a huge problem. Few years ago a black guy with greek nationality (his parents from Nigeria) proved to be a great Basketball player ( the "greek-freak" if you are into NBA) and suddenly everyone loves him in Greece although he is black. He is Greeks pride now. That is what annoys me, that inconsistency, to be a racist deep down, but pretend not to be depending on the circumstances. ( I believe something similar happens in the world of classical music)As for how to deal with people who have a racist mindset, I think telling them they are racist does not touch them (they have heard that too often). One has to go deeper, and expose the faulty thinking process. I usually don't have the courage/energy for that, and just try avoiding them.
Here's an odd feeling I get ...So, I'm white.But for the past two or three years, at almost every piano event I've been too, most of the musicians are either Asian or Indian. Is it a bad thing that I feel like an oddball? I have nothing against hard-working Asian musicians--in fact, almost all my musician friends are Asian. But it makes me wonder, though.Why is it that (from what I can see in my geographical experience, at least) that the majority of accomplished young musicians (for example, most the Portland Youth Philharmonic) are mostly Asian, with only a very few exceptions? Why is it so rare for white kids to be skilled musicians now (exception one family that I know)? What does this imply about our demographic's work ethic? It doesn't give me a good feeling at all. Not exactly racism, but more like a curiosity.Thoughts?
Imagine someone saying "What, you are fat? You sounded so thin...".
Okay so this is the genre of classical music.All the composers are white menAll the concert goers are whiteAll the all time great famous pianists are white (though recently we're starting to see Asian)All the professors are white.All the doners are white.All the competitions have white contestants and winners (recently we've been seeing more Asian)All the judges are white.I'm talking about canon classical music that people actually care about not no Clara Schumann, Andre Watts, George Walker, or Florence Price (even though I think they're great)And Classical music BY PURE COINCIDENCE is considered HIGH CLASS art, the BEST art, ELITE art, SOPHISTICATED art blah blah blah Just a reminder... THIS IS JUST A COINCIDENCE AND THIS ISN'T A REFLECTION OF HISTORY OR POWER DYNAMICS IN SOCIETYSo tbh I EXPECT to get weird reactions from people when they find out I'm a clsssical pianist. Well first they assume that I'm a jazz pianist THEN when I tell them I'm a classical pianist I get a weird reaction out of them.
don't you just love it when girls get all excited when they hear you're a pianist because they expect some soothing jazz medleys until you ruin their night by playing some weird Schoenberg piece.
Since you cannot change it all, make sure you take full advantage of being a novelty!I would not go to an R4 concert just because he's a cute black guy though, if I knew he sounded like sh*t. So do not forget to practice...
I actually started taking jazz lessons and I'm trying to do a set with a singer for a house concert some time next month. I still don't really know what I'm doing but Ima give it a shot anyways.So I guess soon enough people will be accurate in just calling me a jazz pianistAlso I'm thinking of going for a bald look.
Do spread out occasionally if you wish, but do not waste my hands! I would keep the hair though...it will offer some protection not only from cold but also on impact.
My hair is thinning so I mm gonna end up bald anyways. I'm super salty and self conscious about it though
Really? So you got poor genes...wear a cool hat then!
Whether the person in question actually is a racist or not, it's certainly rude... I think it's normal to be surprised if you have built a mental image of someone you have not met before and it turns out wrong. You just don't say it loud. Imagine someone saying "What, you are fat? You sounded so thin...".
I am from Italy, and I have type 2 diabetes. I follow a diet, so I rarely eat tagliatelle alla bolognese o polennta alla bolognese (spaghetti are spaghetti alla napoleatana not alla bolognese btw), i topped eating pasta al burro (USA: pasta alfredo) and fried chips, not to mention pizza. I have eaten a small slice of cake 30 days ago, you get the picture. To keep blood sugars in control I follow a strict diet regimen, before the diagnosis I was eatig a pizza once or twice a week, the quick dish was some spaghetti and some butter - i LOVED to eat something new and going to restaurants, you could figure how it's hard for me to follow the diet.A side effect of the diet is hat I am not fact to be precise I am over 4 kg of my ideal weight or 2 kg if I use another calculation.Happened that people asked me how can I have diabetes in I am not fat. This makes me a bit angry, Worse some people are saying that I had diabetes because I have eaten too many sweets. As you can see #racism# could take a lot of aspects, even conditions are profiled. Unfortunately in a lot of cases prejudices are amplifed by media and politicians instead to be rationalized.A friend of mine is a mezzo soprano. From San Francisco, She's black and took Italian citizenship two years ago. And speaks a perfect frencs except she puts all accent like the Quebecois.And likes to tanche Berlin-style techno.How'going with stereotypes?
Thank you for your courage, posting about your personal struggle.