Whether the person in question actually is a racist or not, it's certainly rude... I think it's normal to be surprised if you have built a mental image of someone you have not met before and it turns out wrong. You just don't say it loud. Imagine someone saying "What, you are fat? You sounded so thin...".
I am from Italy, and I have type 2 diabetes. I follow a diet, so I rarely eat tagliatelle alla bolognese o polennta alla bolognese (spaghetti are spaghetti alla napoleatana not alla bolognese btw), i topped eating pasta al burro (USA: pasta alfredo) and fried chips, not to mention pizza. I have eaten a small slice of cake 30 days ago, you get the picture.
To keep blood sugars in control I follow a strict diet regimen, before the diagnosis I was eatig a pizza once or twice a week, the quick dish was some spaghetti and some butter - i LOVED to eat something new and going to restaurants, you could figure how it's hard for me to follow the diet.
A side effect of the diet is hat I am not fact to be precise I am over 4 kg of my ideal weight or 2 kg if I use another calculation.
Happened that people asked me how can I have diabetes in I am not fat. This makes me a bit angry, Worse some people are saying that I had diabetes because I have eaten too many sweets.
As you can see #racism# could take a lot of aspects, even conditions are profiled. Unfortunately in a lot of cases prejudices are amplifed by media and politicians instead to be rationalized.
A friend of mine is a mezzo soprano. From San Francisco, She's black and took Italian citizenship two years ago. And speaks a perfect frencs except she puts all accent like the Quebecois.
And likes to tanche Berlin-style techno.
How'going with stereotypes?