it's good to have a balance between encouragement and discouragement. lately, i have been slightly discouraged (lack of practice time), but then when i go on the forum and read that others like to put pressure on themselves too, even though they aren't 'there' yet - and, just like to see how far they can go - then i say - ok. someone might think i don't belong in college with all those 18-21 year olds but i have company on the forum. somewhere, in another state, is another person who is doing exactly what i am (what AM i doing?) dividing time between family, pets (i love birds, too, but have a cat), and various assundry interests (bicycling, gardening) that i try not to let interfere with practice (first).
i have realized from so many posts that there is the idea of the dream and the reality of the dream. my teacher has made that evident in his sacrifices. most concert pianists really sacrifice a lot to get where they are. i am trying to scrimp on various other things (as mentioned - new car, shopping at the mall, eating out so much) and put it into lessons, classes, and time involved studying. it will pay off, i think, later when i need to show proficiency for a better paying position (wherever and whatever i do). lately, i have also noticed not only performance jobs but music therapy jobs (where you go and play for older people and engage them in conversation about music and get THEIR minds going and enjoying).
everyone on this forum seems amazing to me! everyone has their goal and is going at it in some particular approach - and they are all unique and suited to that person. one size doesn't fit all - but sacrifices are necessary to get to a goal within a certain time frame. mine is running out, i think, so i say to myself 'hurry up.'