why is the 'best technique,' 'fastest player,' etc. very important. my teacher implys that musicality and listening to oneself is far more important. very slow movements can be very beautiful. also, very fast and light movements such as in bach and scarlatti. women can be lighter players, but still very strong. i can get a triple forte now, but it is in relation to the other dynamics and not out to break the strings anymore (even in beethoven). i thought it was a sign of a great pianist to be able to have such a noticeable 'technique.' now, i realize, it's all about taste. just like mozart said. to have it 'flow like oil.' or, if you are playing a contemporary piece (or romantic) to understand it and have a grasp of what the composer was trying to portray or what you yourself understand the piece to mean.
of the many students i've heard in various master classes, many were very 'inhibited' players. i count myself among them. it takes a long time to let go of fears and not be so 'careful.' guys (i hope i am not saying this out of turn) seem to let go, but sometimes are too bold and brash in places (some players/but not all). and, i think women are naturally able and more inclined to be more demonstrative in their playing, whereas some men seem more 'stiff' even when they 'let go.' this may not make sense at first, but you often see women play in a more relaxed manner (they have learned to deal with stress long ago). whereas guys have naturally more muscles, so they have to 'tone down' the sounds when they want to produce a beautful soft sound or hold out notes with a sort of 'melting chocolate' technique that comes easy to women.
women look better on stage.
women feel better about themselves on stage.
some women, just like to BE on stage.
it's rather exhibitionistic if you think about it. men may think they are the more comfortable, but when a female pianist gets really good, they are more appealing to watch (graceful).
women don't wear those awful tails. i mean that's penguinish.
women don't have big feet.
women can pedal lighter.
in general - women are just made to play the piano (being 10% shorter, unless tall) because they are usually closer to the keys - therefore making playing easier.
who's the best female pianist? alicia delarrochia, imo.
ps i don't consider myself a feminist, really, and actually prefer to watch a man play. this doesn't discredit what i have said, but just emphasizes that there IS something to stage presence and appeal. i mean, either a man or a woman, if they are self-confident and have something to share, can be equally appealing.