agreed about thanking doctors and nurses for all they do.
It's not thanking them personally so much. It's reporting what they know, didn't know, achieved and didn't achieve to others.
The people attributed as saving this woman's life were a group of people that prayed.
They may proclaim their power is from God, they might hedge that whether it works is up to God, they might not send a bill, but nevertheless the credit was given to a bunch of people who, mostly because they know they couldn't do anything, entertained themselves with the idea that they could and then were given the credit.
The people that actually were doing something, at best, get "well I can pray and make my Doctor competent" concept.
but, imo, they cannot control what happens in your own body or the bodies of other patients. some react well to certain treatment and others do not.
Absolutely. The biggest problem with the "miracle" is, it ignores all the medical treatment being administered, and dismisses the Doctors and Nurses knowledge, ability and actions.
Yet it takes one statistic from them, about the survival chances of the patient without question.
when you are actually in a situation it is much different that when you are just talking about it. or, if it is your OWN mother - or your own relatives. believe me, you DO start praying even if you are not religious.
Absolutely a good point. However, it does not work if you do it or not.
But, remember, the premise was also given that if you don't believe it won't work. You seem to believe slightly differently. That whether God decides to do something is down to his own arbitrary decision. Since God is omnipresent and supposedly knows everything it would seem daft praying in your case since he's clearly already aware and will decide for himself whether he does anything anyway.
But, for this so-called "never went to church and to be honest I don't know anything about it at all" religious philosophy it appears slightly different.
If I pray and my mother dies then that's because I didn't believe or because God decided to say "No" to my mother. Because "prayer works whatever I or anyone else says differently otherwise 15 yo's wouldn't believe in would they, eh?"

I'm all for impressionable people asking questions and whose mothers or friend's mothers survive after prayer deluding themselves into believing it was God. Fine, no harm done.
I'd be more worried about the other side of the coin though. Those talked into believing that God exists at a similar vulnerable time, as you note above that they often do, whose relatives don't survive.