When my hands won’t cooperate how can I make music?
It is a very good question. And you have already answered it: you must have the co-operation of your hands. That is all there is to it. How to go about it is the real question.
When I lack the strength, dexterity and independence of the fingers to do the things required in the music it makes no sence to intellectualise my problem. I want to know how to develop each one of my fingers into an independent little drumstick! Because those are the tools that I need to make music. When the mechanics (as someone put it ) is in place, then and only then has come the time for analyzing movement and doing brainwork. Perhaps mechanics is even trivial once achieved. But for those of us who struggle lack of mechanics is a road block, no less. How to achieve those mechanics, that’s the question for most of us. So please, have another go, those of you who know.
But here you have gone completely astray, and incidentally, you have also told me why your hands will not co-operate.
You see:
1. You don´t lack strength. Your hands know that, and they will not put up with any PE program to acquire/develop what they know they already have.
What you lack is co-ordinationWork on co-ordination is specific, requires a knowledgeable teacher (not necessarily in piano, mind you - I have learned co-ordination from most excellent maters of the martial arts) to supervise work that most of the time seems non-sensical and couter-intuitive.
2. Everyone lacks finger independence. The tendons of the 3rd, 4th and 5th fingers are linked together. Do you really wnat to know how to make each of your fingers an independent drumstick? Surgery. But after each is an independent drumstick, you will find out - like many an angry married woman - that
independece prevents co-ordination of effort. Once they are rendered sirurgically independent your fingers will not be able to co-operate. This is what you truly need: to learn how to make your fingers collaborate, not how to make them independent.
I short, you have no clue, no idea what you are talking about (I say this in the kindest possible way), but you are utterly convinced that you do. Your hands, however, know better, and they are not about to embark on such flawed plan of action.
When the mechanics (as someone put it ) is in place, then and only then has come the time for analyzing movement and doing brainwork.
You cannot be serious. If you don´t know the mechanics (and clearly you don´t otherwise, why would you be asking for help?), and if no one has shown it to you (and clearly no one has, otherwise why would you be resorting to asking in an internet forum) then you will have to find out for yourself. And how are you going to do that, except by thinking long and hard about it and investigating at the piano your theories and scrupulosly discarding what does not work? Mind you, it will take a looooong time, but if you are determined enough you may get there.
I truly would like to help you, but it is very difficult to speak of these things in writing (not for want of trying - there are almost 5000 posts of mine out there). You need a hands on approach. In any case, have a look here:
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/board,4/topic,4880.3.html#msg46319(discusses how to acquire technique and what technique actually is)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,1918.msg15015.html#msg15015(Thumb under/over – detailed explanation – Fosberry flop)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2024.msg16583.html#msg16583(how to aim the pinky – using the arm to move the fingers)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2033.msg16635.html#msg16635(finger strength)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2076.msg17157.html#msg17157(Speed – the 3 most important factors)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2079.msg17335.html#msg17335(Hand tension – not using fingers to play)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2106.msg17587.html#msg17587(developing both hands equally – repertory - why the LH is generally weaker – website for left handed pianos)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2163.msg18345.html#msg18345(Colour – it is all about overtones)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2359.msg20442.html#msg20442(Fingering placement on the keys)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2230.msg20686.html#msg20686(Octaves and fast octaves – excellent post by Robert Henry)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2477.msg21403.html#msg21403(Double thirds – the movement)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2502.msg21594.html#msg21594(Independence of the 3rd and 4thfinger – it is impossible, one should work towards the illusion of independence: it is all arm work)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2507.msg21688.html#msg21688(Round fingers – the role of fingers)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2552.msg22037.html#msg22037(Accuracy – causes for inaccuracy – One possible solution: repeated note-groups)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2581.msg22252.html#msg22252(Question on piano height, octave playing, wrist movement, etc.).
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2740.msg23635.html#msg23635(Staccatto x light accents)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,1808.msg23879.html#msg23879(Ultra fast arpeggios – slow practice x slow motion practice – good post by Herve – Abby whiteside is also mentioned)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2814.msg24872.html#msg24872(How a student’s physicality affects teaching – discussion on arm x fingers – moving from the centre: tantien and taichi – Seymour Fink gets discussed as well)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2809.msg25013.html#msg25013(Body movement – piano playing and martial arts)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2948.msg25927.html#msg25927(Czerny x Scarlatti to acquire technique – Ted gives an excellent contribution)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,2973.msg25970.html#msg25970(How to create a cantabile effect – several approaches: creating a mental image, outlining, the three basic ways to bring out a melody)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,3036.msg26638.html#msg26638(trills and melody in the same hand)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,3100.msg27113.html#msg27113(thumb over – hand displacement – practising with awareness – awareness is not thinking – learning by imitation)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,3530.msg31559.html#msg31559(how to bring out a melody – 3 different ways – Importance of a mental representation: hear in your mind and the fingers will comply)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,3726.msg33453.html#msg33453(playing with curved fingers – worry less about movement and more about sound)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,3987.msg36197.html#msg36197(etudes and alternatives to them)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,4082.msg37362.html#msg37362(one cannot learn technique in a vacuum. At the same time one cannot simply play pieces – comparison with tennis)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,4182.msg38775.html#msg38775(Hanon: pros and cons – Robert Henry’s opinion)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,4164.msg39149.html#msg39149(CC Chang and relaxation for playing fast passages)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,4282.msg39831.html#msg39831(How to increase speed: slowly using metronome x fast with chord attack – juggling and skiping rope as examples)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,4144.msg40259.html#msg40259(improving speed of LH – move the whole LH not only fingers)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,4385.msg41226.html#msg41226(technique is personal and relative to the piece – Fosberry flop – the best books on technique)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,4734.msg44770.html#msg44770(how to acquire virtuoso technique – aiming at 100 pieces in five years)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,4880.msg46339.html#msg46339(definition of technique: quote from Fink, Sandor and Pires – Example of the A-E-A arpeggio)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,4887.msg47334.html#msg47334(more on Hanon)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,5034.msg47829.html#msg47829(The finger strength controversy – some excellent posts by xvimbi)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,5352.msg50998.html#msg50998(Exercises x repertory – why technique cannot be isolated from music – analogy with warmup in the martial arts – dynamic flexibility and co-ordination – how to do high kicks without warming up)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,5375.msg51272.html#msg51272(Defending technicalexercises – two different philosophies regarding exercises – chopstick analogy)
https://pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,7226.msg72166.html#msg72166(Thumb over is a misnomer: it consists of co-ordinating four separate movements).
https://www.pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,7887.msg79326.html#msg79326(why the lifting of the 4th finger is a non-problem)
https://www.pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,7682.msg77042.html#msg77042(hand independence: how to create a cue system and what is hand memory).
https://www.pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,8335.msg84684.html#msg84684(circular movements to avoid co-contraction)
https://www.pianoforum.net/smf/index.php/topic,8322.msg84686.html#msg84686(speed and muscle tension – 3 important components of speed playing)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,7341.msg114168.html#msg114168(repeated note-groups for difficult passages – correct technique is never uncomfortable – rotation as the solution to 5th finger weakness – criticism to misguided technical exercises – trusting the unconscious)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,7175.msg114163.html#msg114163(wrist action – the movements that should be avoided when playing and the movements that should be used).
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,11179.msg117263.html#msg117263(extensive list of technical exercises and etudes)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,8112.msg113575.html#msg113575(Scarlatti x czerny to acquire technique – quotes by Sankey and Kirkpatrick)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,13208.msg143740.html#msg143740(an account on how Cramer’s technique deteriorated with age)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php?topic=13583.msg147163#msg147163(Why Hanon is a waste of time – or not - summary of arguments and many relevant links)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,15701.msg171057.html#msg171057(debunking Dohnanyi)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php?topic=16273.msg181768#msg181768(More Hanon: demonstration of 4th finger problem)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,11467.0.html(Taubman & Taubman videos)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,5597.0.html(Detailed description of Taubman, Fink and Sink plus comparison)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,12856.msg137763.html#msg137763(detailed discussion on posture – Bernhard´s 10 principles of good posture)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php?topic=17061.new#new(description of thumb movement when descending rh scales)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,11699.msg122788.html#msg122788(technical exercises – reply # 8 by xvimbi is most excellent)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/board,6/topic,19043.18.html#msg206386(Debunking of Cortot – real technique is easy and does not need to bo practised – Liszt´s story)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/board,1/topic,19323.2.html#msg209430(debunking of duchbag video with technical advice)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php?topic=19226.new;topicseen#new(developping finger independence – as if it was possible – examples of videos showing good technique – 4 books)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php?topic=19145.new;topicseen#new(Another debate on Hanon, Czerny and exercise X repertory to acquire technique – list of blunders by experts)
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php?topic=19310.msg209477#msg209477(Nine year old girl with weak fingers - Yet another thread on finger strength and exercises)

Tip of the melting iceberg.
Best wishes,
Bernhard.