@ outin
It is not about the type, amount, etc. of good or bad experiences people go through that makes the difference; they are virtually the same all of the world regardless of culture. It's the philosophy they have about what happens to them in terms of justice/injustice, life, death, reward, punishment, hope, despair, religion, worship, individual, group, love, hate, who is responsible for everything, etc. etc. that makes cultures so different. Classical music has most of its roots in Western religious and philosophical thinking, etc., and the cultural gap to be filled for people from other cultures is considerable if they want to express themselves in works of art from the West (and be understood by Westerners!), just as Westerners will have more than a hard time to "get" all the subtleties in something typically Eastern.