I am not a very eloquent writer...
...I picked this because it is rather close to some of your guy's heart
...and you demostrate your lack of eloquence - not to mention grammatical skills - for all to read (or at least those who can be bothered).
I don't know what the Bible and discussion thereof has to do either with the thread topic itself or indeed with your contributions to the thread; my only comments about the Bible here have been passive, in response to those of others. I don't propose to comment on the remainder of what you've written (other than to mention that only Christians - not Muslims, Jews, Hindus, Sikhs, Buddhists, Zoroastrians, agnostics, atheists &c. - which is rather a large number of people, woiuldn't you say?) might reasonably be expected to adhere to "Christ's laws".
As far as the Bible is concerned, it is not and cannot be what you try to make it out to be and what you appear to have been taught that it is. What you absorb when you read the Bible today (presumably in English) is the contents of a multi-author book written by people who mostly didn't know one another and over many decades without co-operation between them in scholarly research towards it, in which sense it is far from any kind of symposium and accordingly lacking in consistency; not only that, it is almost certainly also incomplete and has parts missing.
Far more importantly than these considerations, however, the entire work as we know it was written around two millennia ago in the Middle East; just think for a moment of all the social, linguistic, political, scientific/technological and other changes that have taken place within humanity not only in the Middle East but also in the rest of the world since then! Consider also how often the work has been translated into languages that would have been unrecognisable at the time of writing! Look (if you must) at the Christian Church and how that, too, has changed over time (albeit not sufficiently, as some Christians and non-Christians might argue). Then consider the different sectors of the Christian Church - Roman Catholic, Protestant, Nonconformist, Coptic, Orthodox et al - as well as the immense differences between individual members of any and all of these.
Trying to take such a book literally (which too many people of your persuasion seek to do) and then somehow to live largely or solely by its premises is a task that's as impossible as it is unnecessary as it is pointless.
I say all of this having immense respect for the teachings of Christ even though not a Christian myself, but that does not discourage me from accepting and rejecting the ways of people of entirely different persuasions. As another poster here has pointed out, you are young and you have time; use it wisely - read, learn, observe, absorb and don't allow yourself to be shoehorned into any one set of thought processes or belief system until you have had far more experience of life, by which time you will have matured sufficiently to have worked this kind of thing out for yourself rather than being led by the nose.
Anyway, this is about you and not about anyone's love life so, once again, back to the topic (if anyone really must)...
Best,
Alistair