Yes, there really was a black widow in our room (it wasn't TOO big, though). It was not the first time to have a blacky in the house. I don't think I got her, though. She disappeared into the wall, I think. Generally, blackies are pretty much super shy and don't want to be around people, and for some reason I'm not as creeped out by them as those big brown ones. There are brown recluse around here, but those big brown ones that I'm not fond of aren't those, I don't *think*. There are of course lots of different spiders around, some bigger and more poisonous than others. Those big brown ones are the most menacing looking to me, they aren't shy and they scurry around like nobody's business, and their teeth are really obvious, though I don't think they are extra poisonous, I still don't want those on me and for them to bite me (they still bite!). As it turns out, I've got loads of spider stories from all throughout my life!
The only time I've been pretty creeped out by a black widow is once when I showed up to my church job to practice piano before anybody else was there. I was going to the piano and my eyes drifted to something on the wall directly behind my bench, and there was a very, extra big black widow on the wall, which is unusual (normally they are hidden in corners). She was just hanging out. There's no WAY I'm squishing something that big, because I'm sure I'd feel it and hear it .... EEEEEEEWW, plus, I did feel badly. And, I just felt like I didn't know what to do, so I decided I'd try to practice anyway until somebody else showed up who would take it outside

. I couldn't concentrate though. I was convinced it would jump on me, as they are supposedly good at jumping (and I always imagine it like a lunge ... they
lunge for you and your throat or so

). The wall was only about 2 feet away but the spider was up about 6 feet or so ... but, that definitely equaled too close for comfort in my world. So, I brain stormed and looked all around and found the perfect remedy!
There were these long curling sticks that had been part of a large flower display, they were like 4 feet long, and I got her on the end of that, she hung down a little so it kind of looked like I was fishing ... hahah ... and with her hanging down from my pole, I took her outside and let her go. Problem solved. Good karma ... right? hmmmm.
One time there was a spider in my shoe and I didn't know until after I put it on ... that's when I was a kid. I always, ALWAYS, check my shoes and hit them heel first against the ground to make sure there aren't any hanging out in there then I visually inspect, before putting them on.