It's not so much that I doubt Enzo's talent... It's just that I find it .... annoying when someone keeps pushing at how great his son is, going to a tough academic school while being a musical genius... sticking videos of his son's fantasie and la campanella in other people's threads... I don't know, I just feel slightly annoyed by it. Your son is great, I get it. I know parents want to show of their children, and if I ever have a child that was somewhat successful I would totally boast about it too. But not to the degree of pushing him in the face of anyone I can reach, including those on the internet. I mean in a thread I saw a post that emill made saying something like, "I know how this is such a tough piece, anyone would have trouble playing it. Oh, by the way, my son learned it in less than a year. video link."
Isn't that like rubbing it in their faces that they can't play as well as your son? Frankly a lot of your "nice" comments don't seem very sincere at all. It just seems like the only reason you're here is to show off your awesome son to everyone else.
Again, I'm just totally jealous of Enzo's abilities, so don't mind my bitterness; I just wanted to rant a bit, since this is the internet.
I am a firm believer of dialogue and that is the reason I will continue to clarify as I feel ongaku_oniko has some serious misconceptions and has ascribed in me some unpleasant motives.
::::: Regarding posting in the NET: My family is a big "international" family like a lot of Filipino families and unlike many western families, family ties are close.... really very close. Even relatives to the 4th degree of consanguinity expect to be treated like immediate family. I have sisters married to a Belgian, an American, a French and a brother who was a former US marine like rodger_1948 ..hehehhehe... I have multitude of cousins, aunties, uncles, nephews and nieces in Europe and the US .... and everyone expects that I periodically send them dvds of Enzo's 1st recital....2nd recital...etc..etc..
Not to do so would be considered a slight on my part against them. So I opened an account in YT in 2006 and if you will bother to scrutinize the videos posted they are from the mediocre to good performances and shows clearly the growth of Enzo as a pianist through the years. We did not do any filtering of only good videos for purposes of showing off, but posted as they came. As I said the videos were primarily for my "international" family so they will get off my back and give me some peace. However, along the way, many people liked his videos so much so that he has now over 5,500 subscribers and friends, but still the original purpose prevails. It was never meant to show off.
If you feel that our posting here in Pianostreet is to show off, then that is a personal opinion which no amount of clarifying will probably convince you. Let me just tell you that I frequently "cut and paste" comments here and send them by email to his teacher. I have also provided the teacher links to the videos Birba has been kind enough to make. And I have noticed that Enzo has also adopted a good amount of the suggestions made. So if you feel we are showing off ... so be it.
::::: sticking his son's videos in other peoples thread. Yes I have done this 3-4 times in the last 5 years but only to emphasize a point. It is not as you seem to suggest that I do it frequently to show off.
I posted the link to La Campanella which Enzo attempted when he was 12 in a thread started by Animae where she asked - I'm going to learn Rach 3! Am I crazy?. Most of those who answered gave me the impression in their advice that the piece was too advanced for her. It reminded me of Enzo's attempt at La Campanella at age 12 .... I thought the piece was too advanced for him then, but did not discourage him and allowed him to find out for himself ... after he practiced for some time and finally played it, he realized it was not for him at that time and did not touch the piece again up to now, which is about 3 years since. That was my message which was clearly stated there .... for animae to try the piece ... feel her way through it .. make her decide if she is good enough to make a go for it .... and if she feels inadequate, for her to leave the piece for some time and go back to it in the future. That was the message.... never was the intent to show off .... and really the la campanella played by enzo was not that well played.
I posted links to Mozart's sonata 330 in one of the threads of ladypianist because she wanted to hear a Mozart from Enzo. It was not meant to show off but to learn, it was played just average.
At that time ... lady pianist was the toast of pianostreet for her "genius" and comments coming from her were appreciated by most, including me.
I posted the Fantasie Impromptu in this thread to complement my narration.
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"I know how this is such a tough piece (fantasie impromptu), anyone would have trouble playing it. Oh, by the way, my son learned it in less than a year. video link."
A statement according to you made by me in a post here in Pianostreet? I flatly deny ever making such an arrogant statement as that ...but if you can just refresh my memory with a link to it ... I am willing to apologize and as a consequence for such a braggadocio, stop all posting in pianostreet and merely remain a lurker to continue my education.
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It's not so much that I doubt Enzo's talent... It's just that I find it .... annoying when someone keeps pushing at how great his son is, going to a tough academic school while being a musical genius
This was in response to your impression that I was a pushy father. It was to emphasize that despite the demands of their school which prides itself for their academic excellence, he still is self driven enough to practice the piano at least an hour a day without anyone prodding or pushing or watching him to do so. He just enjoys doing it. He is not being pushed.
regarding the "musical genius" .... your words not mine. I do not remember ever using words like genius or virtuoso ... to me Enzo is Enzo my son ... period.
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Perhaps I'm being too harsh on enzo's father. Certainly I am bitter and jealous.
So I guess my perspective on emill isn't very fair. It's just what I feel based on the very few posts he made that I saw, and if no one else shares this feeling, then more likely than not, I am wrong.
And strangely enough, I can't find the posts I was referring to... perhaps I gone crazy and thought it up all in my mind? o_o
Oh well .... I am sorry that you are bitter and jealous, emotions
which can easily cloud understanding and judgment. I am also
sorry if what I meant came differently to you than most here, perhaps
I should strive to be more clear next time.
No worries at all, we have received and been attributed worse things.
best wishes,
emill